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Chioma Goodhair bares it all with Toke Makinwa - Video

Chioma Goodhair bares it all with Toke Makinwa – Video

Chioma Goodhair describes her horrible experience in an abusive relationship.

She ended up in the hospital after her ex hit her on those occasions.

Chioma Ikokwu, a.k.a. Chioma Goodhair, has disclosed that she suffered abuse in a previous relationship.

In the latest episode of Toke Moments hosted by Toke Makinwa, she spoke about how she ignored the signs of abuse in a former relationship. The Real Housewives of Lagos star said that one of the signs was the fact that he consistently sought forgiveness after a wrongdoing.

She said, “I’ve been in a relationship that was violent, in my first relationship. But the thing is, the most violent men are the serial beggars. I remember the first time he did it, he slept outside my house on the floor for 3 days in the rain, sunshine and everything. Obviously by the fourth day and everything, I’m not a devil so I was like come in and sleep in the corridor. Then I woke up in the middle of the night and he was next to me on the bed.”

Chioma Goodhair and Toke Makinwa

She also claimed to have missed the love bombing—the gifts he would not stop giving her, especially after upsetting her. Speaking with host Makinwa, Chioma Goodhair emphasized the embarrassment associated with abuse and how, after her ex left her bloody, wounded, and beaten, she only notified one person.


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“These men beg and shower you with gifts and all these things and I’m a very strong person so I went back and it happened the second time. Both times I ended up in the hospital. It wasn’t a small thing. I did not have the courage to leave. The first time, I told my friend not to tell anyone because I was ashamed. He was so narcissistic. He was not taking responsibility and was telling people that I hit my face on the door.”

  • See the full interview below:

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